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Finding the Perfect Wedding Date

Choosing the date is a decisive step. Ten considerations to help you find the date that truly suits you.

As your wedding photographer I'm glad to support your preparations. The right date makes sure everything comes together on the big day, from the light to the budget to the people who should be there.

1. How soon after the engagement?

There's no fixed rule here. Some couples savour the engagement and take their time planning, others start right away. In the German-speaking region an engagement lasts on average 12 to 18 months.

2. The most popular months

In demand above all are Saturdays from May to October. If you celebrate outdoors and want to dodge hot temperatures, it's best to leave out late July and August.

3. The quieter months

Late November to January are less in demand. That doesn't make these weddings any less beautiful. A winter wedding has a charm all its own, and often more availability with venues and vendors.

4. Holidays to rather avoid

With a larger guest list including distant relatives and friends, it's best to avoid family-oriented holidays like Christmas, Easter, Whitsun, Assumption Day, All Saints’ Day and New Year.

5. Holidays that can work

New Year’s Eve and the days between Christmas and New Year are popular dates, and for good reason: they bring a special festivity and let you celebrate the start of your marriage in a singular way.

6. The date and your budget

The date affects the budget. Many venues and caterers adjust their prices seasonally; in months with lower demand the costs are usually lower.

Wedding couple in a castle park, late afternoon light
Every season has its own light. The date sets the mood of your images.

7. Your very own VIPs

Everyone has people who simply must be there. Before you fix a date, make sure it works for parents, close friends and other important people.

8. Avoid big events and trade fairs

If much of your party travels from afar, finding accommodation gets harder if a major event is on in the city that same weekend. A quick look at the events calendar is worthwhile.

9. Other weddings in your circle

If another wedding with a similar guest list falls in the same year, for instance a sibling’s or a cousin’s, leave enough space between the two dates.

10. Enough lead time for planning

An ideal planning window is 12 to 18 months. That gives you time to plan and carry out every detail carefully, without ending up under time pressure.

Bonus: the City of Vienna’s dream wedding

For a ceremony via the “Traumhochzeit in Wien” office (MA 63): +43 1 4000 09570, traumhochzeit@ma63.wien.gv.at. Slots include Mon, Tue, Wed and Fri at 16:00 and 18:00, Sat at 10:00, 12:00 and 14:00, none on public holidays. From the first working day in May, reservations for the whole following year are possible.

Once the date is set, the time before it gets exciting. An engagement shoot is the loveliest way to capture it.

Good to know

Frequently asked questions

How long is an engagement on average?

In Austria, Germany and Switzerland the average engagement lasts between 12 and 18 months. There's no fixed rule, though, some couples celebrate the engagement longer, others start right away.

Which months are most popular for weddings?

Usually Saturdays from May to October. If you plan an outdoor celebration and want to avoid great heat, it's best to leave out late July and August. Late November to January is quieter, but a winter wedding has a charm of its own.

Does the date affect the budget?

Yes. Many venues and vendors, caterers especially, adjust their prices seasonally. In months with lower demand the costs are usually lower.

How do I book a date through the City of Vienna?

The “Traumhochzeit in Wien” office of MA 63 can be reached at +43 1 4000 09570 or traumhochzeit@ma63.wien.gv.at. From the first working day in May you can make reservations for the entire following calendar year.

How far in advance should we set the wedding date?

An ideal planning window is 12 to 18 months. Popular Saturdays from May to October are booked early, so for those it's worth settling on a date especially early.

Which season is the most affordable for a wedding?

Spring and autumn are often cheaper than the summer peak season, because demand is lower. Many venues and caterers adjust their prices seasonally, and the seasons offer a colourful backdrop too.

Should we marry on a public holiday?

With a larger guest list it's better to avoid family-oriented holidays like Christmas, Easter or Whitsun. New Year’s Eve and the days between the years, by contrast, are popular, festive dates.

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