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Careful planning is the key to relaxed photos. When there's enough time for the important moments, the loveliest images happen all by themselves.

When planning, pay attention above all to transfer times and to the daylight, which varies greatly by season. The shoot ideally doesn't fall in the harsh midday sun, but in the later afternoon or the evening, when the light softens. Here is a proven flow with guide times.

Getting ready: the details

Around 30 minutes

Lay out all the important details in a spot with plenty of natural light: dress, shoes, flowers, rings. That lets me start straight away. It helps to have one person keep everything within reach. While I photograph the details, first images of the preparations already happen. This applies to both sides, I capture the details for both of you.

Getting ready: the preparation

Around 60 to 90 minutes

Then comes getting dressed. I ask everyone who should be in the pictures to be ready before it starts. Keep the room as tidy as possible, it makes for nicer images. If you can, add an extra empty room, or rent a house or loft altogether, more space, more light, less clutter. For the groom I also plan time, often a second photographer handles this in parallel.

Getting-ready scene with soft window light
Plenty of natural light and a tidy room make the getting ready.

The ceremony

30 to 60 minutes

Time to marry. Civil ceremonies usually last around 30 minutes, church ones 60 minutes or more. Enjoy this moment, it's over faster than you think. At the end comes the couple’s exit.

Group photo, reception and congratulations

Around 45 minutes, depending on guest numbers

Right after the exit, the big group photo of all guests works well, before anyone is holding a glass. Then the reception begins, and guests offer their congratulations in parallel. Find a shaded spot with a nice background. As a rule of thumb: guest numbers divided by two gives roughly the minutes the congratulations take.

Couple portraits

Around 60 minutes

Still during the reception we begin your couple photos, a good moment for some time as a two. Only my assistant and I are present. We start a little apart so we're undisturbed, then slowly move back towards the party. And if it rains? That often makes for the strongest images of all, with soft light, an umbrella and reflections outside or intimate and warm indoors. I have a plan for any weather.

Family portraits

Around 30 minutes

Best outdoors, for naturally looking images. A list of the groups you want and one person who helps organise make this part quick. We start with the immediate family right after the ceremony.

The laid table

15 to 30 minutes

Plan at least 15 minutes before the guests enter the room, so I can photograph your festively laid table untouched. For a grand reveal, where you enter the room in front of the guests, allow 30 minutes.

Golden hour, first dance and party

The golden hour, about an hour before sunset, is the best time for extra portraits, warm and golden. Then you open the dance floor. From here my schedule is loose, I work with natural light and flash to capture the first dance and the party. To finish, a short outdoor shot with champagne or sparklers late in the evening is worthwhile.

Wedding couple with sparklers at night in front of the venue
A night shot with sparklers as the perfect close to the day.

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Frequently asked questions

How much time should we plan for the couple photos?

Around 60 minutes is ideal, usually during the reception. It gives you some time to yourselves while I place you in the best light in peace. We start a little away from the party and slowly move back, so no one misses you.

What is the golden hour and is it worth it?

The golden hour, about an hour before sunset, is the best time for portraits in late spring, summer and early autumn, warm, golden light. If the schedule allows, we grab a few extra minutes here, for example during dessert.

Should we plan time for family photos?

Yes, around 30 minutes right after the ceremony. A short list of the groups you want and one person who helps gather everyone makes this part quick and relaxed.

What happens if it rains?

Rain isn't an emergency for me but often a chance for images no sunny day can give: soft, even light, reflections on the wet ground, a transparent umbrella as a prop, warm and intimate moments indoors. For every wedding I plan a plan B from the start, and I know the covered photo spots, beautiful interiors and the short ways there in advance. With the right gear, off-camera flash and a calm approach, I capture your emotions whatever the sky does. You need not worry about a thing.

When should we start getting ready?

For the detail photos plan around 30 minutes, and 60 to 90 minutes for getting ready itself. That leaves enough buffer before the ceremony, without any rush.

What is a first look?

A first look is a deliberate first moment as a couple before the ceremony, away from the guests. It takes away the nerves and creates extra time for calm couple photos.

How much time do the group photos need?

Allow about 45 minutes, depending on guest numbers. Rule of thumb: guest numbers divided by two gives roughly the minutes for the congratulations. The big group photo works best right after the exit.

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